How I define success
Wow I had a big 1st week on a new endeavor working as on-site #PerformanceCoach in a professional setting...
I love what I do and therefore it doesn't feel like work... holding space for others and giving them deep divine listening and seeing them is so healing and therapeutic in itself.
People need people. It is how we get to see beyond our own limiting B.S. (belief systems)
I get to work with people in a solid profession that are stabilized in this aspect of life and needs and are at a place to enrich their lives on a deeper level. They have come to the realization they long for something more than money now they have the money and that is a beautiful starting place to begin supporting them in living their most fulfilling life.
There is so much more than our material world and our soul's long for deep connection and this is what these people are finding is missing.
I always say change and growth begins with AWARENESS and when the soul isn’t being fed - there is a longing and a feeling that something is missing.
People measure success in many ways and often unconsciously by the amount of money they have and make.
Success is subjective and unique according to each of person's unique values, experiences, and purpose in life and unless we take the time to define how we measure our own success then we will continue to feel empty, incomplete and unfulfilled unconsciously measuring ourselves against a metrix of success defined by someone or something else.
Money is a tool and an energy to live life, take care of family, responsibilities and live out our purpose but it has absolutely nothing to do with your sense of worth and value on this earth as a spiritual being having a human experience.
The way I measure success is…
in my ability to get out of my own way and walk fearlessly and knowingly with faith and trust moment to moment
by the moments I am able to breathe out of illusion and the stories and meanings created in my mind
in my ability to let go and simply experience the magic of presence being in the love that lives in the moment free from attachment or expectation of anything beyond sharing the purity of time
being free from the shackles and binds of the past or fear of the future
I measure my success in my practice of detaching from other peoples ways, words and behaviors and in my knowing their journey and process is not about me.
I find success is in the ability to just breathe and let those in front of me just simply be exactly who, how and where they are and not need to fix or change it.
I measure my success by being able to really connect to the moment not to myself and it is in that I feel closer to God and magic.
I really feel successful when I get to play a role in mirroring for someone else's healing and liberation and helping them see beyond their perceived limitations.
I measure my success in the moments I am truly unfuckwithable and that is only accessible when I am able to fully surrender my ego.
And when you can do that is when I think everything else will fall into place for the material success you desire.
Ego says "Once everything falls into place, I will have peace."
Spirit says "Find your peace, and then everything will fall into place."
How do you define your own success?
