How to recover from people pleasing

I’ve got some food for thought for you 💭

I’m especially talking to those of us who find ourselves feeling wronged, not understood, alone, empty, not seen, heard or validated….to those who often find themselves upset with others

Okay like that’s every human right?!

Relationships is my favorite topic…and I witness many people begin the inward journey and go through a lot of hard darkness and getting stuck in the victim mentality and blame game when all the feelings start coming up to be felt

Feelings are for feeling, not story telling bc a big ole messy web gets weaved in that space and it’s like Charlotte 🕷writing a whole story justifying the feelings and you don’t even see the story you are writing and creating that keeps you stuck

You are the spider weaving the web of the stories that you live

So how about this….instead of trying to understand yourself and keeping on with that story that perpetuates being victimized

You look outward, look to understand those you are in relationship with…your friends, family, lover….

Instead of grasping and reaching to be understood, heard, or seen by another you seek to understand others and make them feel seen, heard, understood, validated

Give what you want and watch it come back

This is love ❤️ the other is force and control

This is how you recover from people pleasing, codependency and toxicity

HEAL YOUR HEART ❤️ and don’t expect others to do it for you

That’s so not hot

At my #SacredSoulRevivalRetreat I’m co-facilitating with @beatpeacewithalison

We will be breaking down the masculine and feminine energetics and how it all exist within and how to access staying whole even in the slippiest of slopes (relationships)

We will be breaking down how to get out of your own way to have exactly what it is you seek through being able to feel and dance with the energetics so you can save yourself from wasting time in the mental gymnastics

YOU ARE THE SOLUTION AND CREATOR IN THIS MATRIX WE ARE LIVING

You are worth the time and investment bc you impact everyone one you encounter

You matter

You do not have to suffer - you get to be fulfilled, wealthy and healthy